Revenge, River, & the Wrong way of going about things

So here i am typing away once again. I don't really know what it is i'm typing about but i've decided to just let it go and see what it is that comes to be. Yesterday, Andrea was trying to talk some sense into Andy....for he really is being very unfair to her. They broke up about 4months ago, and he is using their son River as a tool. It's sick and shallow. He's the one that broke up with her though he doesn't want to admit to it. He's in denial of being hurt and angry and all he wants is to get back at Andrea. That's not the way to go about things and revenge isn't going to solve a damn thing. He isn't putting River first and he knows it(well actually he's being to fucking stupid to realize it and it's not a good thing at all.) He has a lawyer and apparently isn't listening to what he has to say to him......Andy doesn't like to listen to anyone, unless of course he agrees with it. So I think he's just digging himself a deeper hole and he's not going to be able to get out of it. His mom's an alcoholic and just the other night admitted to Andrea that "You're just like my mother!" He associates most every drunk *female* to be just like his mom. So that being said, I also have a very big feeling that "yeah, he's trying to get back @ his own mother as well." That's wrong....it's not the right thing to do with a young child at all....poor River is being used like a fucking toy that Andy thinks he can have power over just because he has him in his court at the moment. He thinks everything is going to work out to his benefit and it's so sick. He is so emotionally unstable it's not even funny. He's in denial of a lot of things and when talking to him, it's like talking to a fucking brick wall. AAAAHHHHHHHHH! Anyway there's a lot more to it but i've gotta go right now. To be continued......